Letter to and from My Ex-Wife Christine E Smith, aka Kelly Marie Windsor. Asking for information about my son, and posting other items as well

A Pic of Edna

Monday, September 18, 2006

this is an early picof her mother Edna Jean Hatfield Collins ??Goolsby

these day she is much bigger, and not so nice

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Will I ever get an answer..

Sunday, September 17, 2006

Once again I will ask, How our son is doing. I don't know why you won't let me know how he is doing

I'm sure you think you are doing right by him, which you are not.

I know in the past you have told people that his father is dead. ( this is noted in his medical records)

You need to get a life and be an adult about this.

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Ok Guys here is the low down on Kelly

Saturday, September 16, 2006

Ok Guys here is the down low on this woman, which is if you can call her one.. Born June 19, 1970 She has live in following places.

  1. Mars hill, NC
  2. Chesapeake VA (lot of address in this city) the main address is 2413 Cross St.
  3. Macclesfield, NC
  4. Wilson, NC
  5. Sharpsburg, NC
  6. Portsmouth many-addresses for this city as well
  7. Suffolk
  8. Florida as well
The names she has used
  1. Karen Lee
  2. Sara Ellen Goolsby
  3. Angel Gale
  4. Colleen Collins
I will try to find a current or old pic to post so the world will know what she looks like.

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Letter and card info.. up till 2002

Friday, September 15, 2006

Letters sent to Chrissy 24

Letter returned 09

Cards for Kris sent 14

Cards returned 04

Letters to Edna 01

Letters to Hatfield’s 01

Dates of letters sent

Recent first

  1. September 29, 2002
  2. July 01, 2002
  3. June 27, 2002
  4. June 23, 2002
  5. June 22, 2002
  6. June 21, 2002
  7. June 09, 2002
  8. May 15, 2002
  9. May 09, 2002 this letter was to Edna
  10. April 30, 2002
  11. April 24, 2002
  12. April 18, 2002
  13. January 08, 2002
  14. December 30, 2001
  15. December 17, 2001
  16. December 17, 2001
  17. August 26, 2001
  18. August 17, 2001
  19. July 28, 2001 to the Hatfield’s
  20. July 27, 2001
  21. July 02, 2001
  22. January 04, 1998
  23. December 28, 1997
  24. December 01, 1997
  25. November 10, 1997

Dated that letters/Cards returned

Letters

  1. 12.07.02
  2. 12.07.02
  3. 28.06.02
  4. 24.06.02
  5. 24.06.02
  6. 12.01.02
  7. 07.08.01
  8. 29.12.97
  9. 10.09.02

Cards

  1. 22.04.02
  2. 03.06.02
  3. 24.06.02
  4. 12.07.02

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Letter date May 15, 2002

May 15, 2002

Christine E. Collins Smith

P.O.Box 6584

Chesapeake, VA 23323

Christine,

As I sit here writing this letter to you, I have to wonder how my son is doing. I have to guess what he looks like, how he is growing. I have to wonder if he even knows about me. I often wonder what are his favorites things to do, what types of games does he like to play, does he have any childhood friends. What types of sports if any does he like?

I know that you are receiving my letters, cards that I have sent to K. I know that you mark them return to sender address unknown. Like the most recently letter that I sent to K in care of Mr. Hatfield. Return to me, the writing done in your mother’s handwriting.

I don’t know what is going through that head of yours, nor do I have the time to guess. Since there are many possibilities, maybe you are searching for something that lies between shit and syphilis.

When are you going to learn that you can’t just wish me away, and out of K’s life? K will learn either now or later who his father is, there won’t be anything you can do or say about. I wonder how you are going to deal with the lies that you are now and will tell him about me. When he finds out about the lies you have been telling him for so many years about his father.

By the way, does these numbers mean, if anything to you 2460 or 1929 or 1930?

Your selfishness will one day cause K great pain and anger that he will resent you for what you have done. Your mother isn’t an innocent party either. Then again I sure she can find you another stepfather, this will be number five, well ok four since she marry one of then twice.

So who is this man that you are living with now. I wonder are you going to the same to him as you have done to me when he leaves you. I just wonder how long it was take for him to see through your lies and crocodile tears.

Here is a question for you why did George leave Edna? I wonder if he simply got tried of all the lies too. I wonder if I could find him and see what $1500 dollars can buy! I just wonder what types of stories that he has to tell. Let see I know that he is back in North Carolina, maybe at this mother's house. If I remember I do have her phone and address, maybe I should pay him and her a visit real soon. I guess I will have to take a tape recorder with me. Then again maybe we have already talked. What a dilemma it is, not knowing if we have already talked.

Over the years I have realize that you are nothing at all but a trouble woman with a serious psychological problem or problems, I would like to suggest that you get some professional help again. You have done 3 month in the Portsmouth Navel Hospital. Remember you told me about this one night. You also told me that at the age of 14 you try to kill yourself, remember! If not for your sake then do it for K sake. I truly believe that you might have Munchausen's Syndrome

You know we have a NC Court Order that you have notify me of all medical conditions that K may have, why didn’t you inform me about the tubes in his ears. I can only speculate about what else may be wrong with K.

On a difference note I would like to express my deepest sympathy for the lost of your Grand Mother. Sorry to hear that she passed away.

Respectfully,

James

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The New Name is found out

November 18, 2002

Kelly Marie Windsor

P.O.Box 6584

Chesapeake, VA 23323

Kelly or Chrissy

Hi there I’m sure I’m the last person you wanted to hear from. Since we are on the subject that has been the main theme of many of my letters to you. I would like to know how my son is doing. This is no longer a request, now I demand you to tell me how my son is doing.

I sure you are wondering how I found out your new name, well my dear in a few words, THE INTERNET, it’s amazing thing, all the free public records that one can search though, also a federal law call the FREE OF INFORMATION ACT. It simply means that any one can find a person address legally.

There are so many public records out there; I wonder how many you are in.

Now back to my son, I would like a recent photograph of him, and I want to know how he is doing in school. How is his health?

It's time for you to grow up and to start acting like a parent instead of a child.

James

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Another request for information on my son

July 1, 2002

Christine E. Smith

2413 Cross St.

Chesapeake, VA 23323

Chrissy,

I really don’t know what your mother and your problems are and I really don’t care. I know that you still live in Chesapeake and so.

You can keep on returning all of my letters that you like however it will not stop me from writing to ask how my son is doing. I have enough information on you and your family to find you no matter where you go.

I personally know that you won’t go to far without your mother. In fact all I have to do is to find her and I find you.

It’s time for you to stop playing these games that your mother played with your father. All I’m asking is information on our son. That is not asking too much.

I have written twenty-three letters asking for this information, one to your grandparents, one to your mother, well that one was in response to her letter. I know that you have received these letters, since I have only five return to sender letter back. I have received two cards that I have sent to K back, one with you mother handwriting on it.

Till you respond with my request I will not stop writing. If only one good thing comes out of this is that I will have proof to show to K that I did try to stay in his life and your mother and you were blocking me every step of the way.

Till,

James

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Letter to Chrissy in April of 02

April 30, 2002

Christine E. Collins Smith

Post Office Box 6584

Chesapeake, VA 23323

Dear Christine E. Collins Smith,

Subject: Our Son K

I have repetitively written and asked how our son is doing. Yet, you have failed to reply to my very simple request. It is time for you to put your petty feelings you have against me aside and act in the best interest of our son.

K has the right to know who his father is. One way or another he will know me.

In the letters that you have written me in 1997, you claimed that it was in his best interest. Well, it is now for you to act in the best interest of your child.

As I look back over my family’s past and your family’s past I’m shocked to see this pattern forming. Your mother has been married four times, now you have been married twice, just two to go. You’ve starting this strange type of relationship between K and myself that is almost like your father and yours relationship. I hope for K sake this is not what you are doing. Simply because I won’t give up on my son, I will be a part of his life. I will try to have a very civil relationship with my son. I have tried to have a civil relationship with you, however since you don’t want me to know anything about my son life, I have sought out others means. Legal means that is, I have filed to reorder visitation, to be inform of K Health, and to have access to his medical and schools records.

I hope that we can peacefully come to an agreement, which is in the best interest for K. I hope we can do this before court. If all is possible this hearing won’t be in front of Judge Olds.

Once again could you please act like an adult and let the father of your child know how his son is doing. Also could you possible send a current photo?

Respectfully,

James T. Smith III

cc:    File

 

P.S. I have enclosed a self-address stamped envelope for you to use. So it won’t cost you a thing, just a piece of paper, and a few moments of your time.

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She even won't let her Grandparent tell me any thing

July 28, 2001

Wilson, NC 27893

 

Mr. & Mrs. C Hatfield

2413 Cross St.

Chesapeake, VA 23323

 

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Hatfield

 

I recently have written to Christine in care of your address, seeking some basic information on my son K. I know that you have given her, her mail in the past that I have I sent since the money order that I sent to her was cashed.

 

I fully understand that you may not want to get involved in Christine and my personal affairs, however I would like to ask if you could please provide me with some information.

 

I don’t want her current address nor phone number. I would like information concerning my son. If I’m correct he should be in the first grade this year. I would like to know how he is doing, how is his health.

 

I have asked this of Christine, but she hasn’t responded to any of my request on this matter.

 

I hope that you two are doing well. Hope to hear from you soon.

 

Sincerely,

 

 

 

 

James Smith

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A letter to Edna Chrissy Mother, dated Nov 16, 2002

November 16, 2002

Edna Goolsby,

 

                Well I sure this letter will be return to me, but that is ok. Since you feel it is necessary to lie for your daughter I thought you should know that what I will or have done.

 

                Early this month I have filed for a termination of child support since Chrissy had vanished with my son. I can only guess that she had found some poor soul with a lot of money and very desperate for some type of company that he doesn’t care that Chrissy is still attach to you. I'm sure once that Chrissy finds out, that I have filed for termination of support. She will reappear as fast as she disappeared for nowhere at all.

 

By the way I sorry for your lost, on the recently death of your mother. I guess this was God’s way to remove her so she wouldn’t have to tell lies for Chrissy and you. I see that you have been able to get your father to lay for you two. You are putting your father in a position where he should be at all.

 

As for Mr.. Talbot if I should happen to find out that he helped Chrissy do anything that is illegal I will file charges against him with the Virginia Bar Association.

 

As for me contacting R and C that is my right. You can’t sit in your little world and dictate the action of others, except for Chrissy’ actions. It seems that you have only one person to dictate to now. I have heard what might have happen between Chrissy, George and yourself. I can only guess why you would allow that to happen. However Ray and Cathy aren’t the only family members that I have contacted in your family.

 

No matter what you think or may do you can’t change what is and what will be. No matter how you may attack me personally in time the lies that Chrissy and you may tell my son about me, at least I will be able to counteract those lies what the truth.

 

While we are on the subject of old hat, why is it that you must constantly bring the matter of child support up, in the letter you written to others and me? I guess this is the only way you can get those that knows that you are a liar to feel sorry for Chrissy and yourself. To get attention to make other see that only Chrissy and you care for Kris. I guess money is the only thing Chrissy and you care about. Doing the right thing like letting K be a child, or to let K know who is father is just too much for a women like you two. Taking about wallowing in deep pity, oops that right that is where you live 24/7/365.

 

No matter what you think I do have the right to know where my son is and who he is taking care of him. If Chrissy should happen to get remarried and if I should happen to find out who he is I will and believe I will do a full background check on him. I will in turn share with him everything that I know about Chrissy, you and your family. How it’s your family way or the highway. Like the old saying what goes what goes around comes around. One day I will have my day in the sun and my truths will counteract your lies that you have told my son any everyone else about me.

 

It funny, as I look at what Chrissy is doing to me now, I see amazing comparison with what you do to R and Chrissy some twenty years ago. I guess it is true that children learn what they live with. In your case Chrissy learned to lie and use other for her own person gain. I guess one could say that you taught Chrissy how to abuse the legal system to her advance.

 

Your time using the court will soon be at an end, for the court will see finally the liars that you are. I guess that is why you haven’t been coming to court with Chrissy any more. I see Shelby is her new teacher, then why not Shelby was doing the same to her ex. I guess she thought that he wouldn’t chase her from state to state, but he did, didn’t he. I remember those drives that you took with her every other weekend she had to drive half way so her kids could see their father. How you two complain about it, by saying it was unfair for him to force her to it. And why he should just leave her be and let them get on with their lives. The only ones in your family that haven't done this yet are your brother and you old maid sister Beverly. You have done this to Ray, your sister Janet has done it to her first husband, and Shelby has done it to her first husband. Damn talking about keeping things in the family, it’s like monkey see, monkey do with you folks. What one does the other must do to match or beat it.

 

Yes you are right that was hitting just below the belt wasn’t it. I guess I too can learn and have learned sometimes for the likes of you two. On one hand I must thank Chrissy and yourself for helping to control my anger. By doing that, I have been able to express my thoughts more clearly and more effectively.

 

Reasonable parent, yes it is my job to supply support for my son, its Chrissy job to provide a stable home for Kris. She hasn’t done that, has she? Always moving from address to address, place to place, how is this providing a stable place for him to grow. I sure you will say that its my fault since I have fail to provide support. Then why did she close the support case with DSS, I tell you why? She didn’t want anyone to know why she is and how she is always moving.

 

Well I will close for now, I sure that if you do decide to read this letter, you will write back.

 

Sincerely

 

 

 

 By the way be say hi to Kelly Marie Windsor aka Christine E. Smith

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My Son Activities told to his grandfather by his mother

Thursday, September 14, 2006

She can let her father know about our son, but couldn't take the time to let the father of her son know. once she found out that father was sharing this information she stop telling him anything.

Talk about being a complete B?tch

From Chrissy Letters to her Father

June 16, 1997
1) K is talking
2) K is now forming sentence
3) He enjoys the slide at the park
4) Loves Dr. Suess books
5) His favorite movies are barney, toy story, and Forrest Gump.

Card dated Unknown
1) He enjoys his Elmo

August 25, 1997
1) No mention of K in this letter

August 27, 1997
1) Same items from June 16, letter
2) He enjoys his hot wheels cars
3) This trucks

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A letter that was sent to Talbot

This is letter that was sent to her first lawyer, she goes through so many of them..i guess it's hard to remembers all the lies..

July 11, 2004
RE: KJS
George E. Talbot

Dear Mr. Talbot

Subject: Information Request

I would like to request some basic information about my son, I hate doing this through you, however since Ms Windsor want to play games like a five-year-old. I guess I have no other choice in the matter. I would like to know how my son is doing. Since, I’m not able to see him myself in person. I would like to know if there is anything that he may need, since school time will be coming very soon, also I would like to know what school she is planning to put him in this year. I’m sure she will try to find a Christian school, which is fine with me. Maybe they can teach him right from wrong.

Also be advised that I won’t simply go into night and be forgotten like a mire dream.

Also please inform Kelly and Edna I know that her grandfather still live at 2413 Cross st. with Bev. I know this because a lien with BB&T Banks is still in place on the property, since her grandfather took out a loan for $29,000.00.

I will be sending his Birthday present to that address. Which I sure I will be get back with Kris’s aunt Bev hand writing on it.

Thank you for your time on this matter.

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August 15 2006 Letter

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

August 15, 2006
Heather Buyrn Crook
1205 Bainbridge Blvd.
Chesapeake, VA 23324

Dear Heather Buyrn Crook:
Subject: Request for Information
Ms Crook I have written you on many occasions, asking for very basic information on my son. To this date I have not received any response on the matter. The only thing have received from Ms Windsor is a holiday card I that I sent to K via Mr. & Mrs. Carl Hatfield. The funny thing is that the card was sent back but not the gift card that was sent with the card.
I see Chrissy is still steaming the envelopes open to see what is inside, then sending the card or letters back. Always without the gift card what were sent.
I have been informed once again that she is moving all around Virginia, and that the main reason is that she can’t pay her rent.
Once again if there is anything my son need all she has to is ask. She won’t get the money directly but I will do my best to get what he needs. I know school is about to start again, so I would like to request the name of his school.
Sincerely,
James Smith

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July 18 2006 Letter

July 18, 2006
Heather Buyrn Crook
1205 Bainbridge Blvd.
Chesapeake, VA 23324


Dear Heather Buyrn Crook,
SUBJECT: REQUEST FOR INFORMATION
I can only say that I’m at a lost, the way Chrissy or Kelly; what ever name she is using this month. In our last court hearing back I 3/18/2005, the only thing that was order was “ending visitation.” However going by the said order:

  • 4. Relocation. Each Party intending a change of address shall give 30 days advance notice of such change of address to the court and other party, pursuant to Virginia Code § 20-124.5. unless otherwise provide in this order, this notice shall contain the child’s full name, the case number of this case, the party’s new telephone number and new street address and, if different, the party’s new mailing address,. Unless otherwise provide in this order, the notice shall be mailed by first-class or delivered to this court and to the other party.

  • 5. Access to Records. In accordance with Virginia Code § 20-124.6, neither parent, regardless of whether such parent has custody, shall be denied access to the academic, medical, hospital or other health records of that parent’s minor child, unless otherwise provided in this order.

I don’t really care about the relocation part of the order since I‘ve been update about the most recently moved, that Chrissy as made from her own family, and by those records are open to the public.
So I will request copies of his school records and health through you since you are her lawyer. If you are no longer her lawyer please since me the name of her new, so I can request the said information through him/her.
I await your reply.
Sincerely,
James Smith

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Another Birthday return,

In late July I sent my son a birthday since his birthday was coming on the 2nd of August. Since his mother doesn't want me to know anything or his where abouts, I sent the card to her Lawyer and simply ask if she could forward the card to him.

In mid-August I got a Letter for her. It read as follow.


August 18, 2006

My address

RE: Kelly Windsor v. ME
Charges: Visitation (In Re: KJS)
Docket No's JJ022785-06-00

Dear Mr. Smith

Enclosed please find the materials you
recently sent me. I do not represent Ms Windsor any longer and cannot assist you
in your quest for information.

signed Heather Buyrn Crook


HOWEVER I SURE ONCE WE HAVE TO GO BACK TO COURT SHE WILL BE REPRESENTING HER ONCE AGAIN. ITS A SHAME THAT A FATHER CAN'T GET SOME VERY BASIC INFORMATION ON HIS SON. I ASK FOR HER TO SENT A CARD AND TO SEE IF HE NEEDED ANYTHING FOR SCHOOL AND A HEALTH UPDATED.

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Only one Month Left

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Well Kelly, or what ever name you are using this month, this was the last of the big checks , one more for a smaller amount to you and me for October. Then no more big checks for you,, I wonder how you will pay your rent now,,, OOOOOPPPPPsssss, you still can't paid your rent. I wonder how many more time you will be moving this year..

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