Letter to and from My Ex-Wife Christine E Smith, aka Kelly Marie Windsor. Asking for information about my son, and posting other items as well

An Online Letter To Chrissy/Kelly

Thursday, March 24, 2005

Kelly Windsor (aka Christine Smith)

So Once I again I find myself writing to you to see how our son is doing. I just don’t understand why you can’t simple write me once a month to let me know this. Ooops I forget you don’t want me to know anything about K.

I found some pictures of our son on line one night. I was amaze to say the least, since those picture shows him doing something that Ms S. that hack doctor and your self claims he can’t. MMM I wonder what the judge would have to say about it when she sees those pictures.

It’s plain and simple, that you don’t want your child to have a relationship with his father. Just like your current none relationship with your father. In which your mother is mainly to blame for the failures in your relationship with your father. You are doing to K what your mother did to R and yourself. One would have thought that you won’t want this for your only son. It seems that you don’t care how this will affect him in the slightest do you. Course not, it’s all about you isn’t it. Just you and no one else, you have always put yourself first in everything you do.

You know if I didn’t know better I could say you are suffering from Munchausen Syndrome (Repeated fabrication of physical illness--usually acute, dramatic, and convincing--by a person who wanders from hospital to hospital for treatment. Commonly, there is an early history of emotional and physical abuse. Patients appear to have problems with their identity, intense feelings, inadequate impulse control, a deficient sense of reality, brief psychotic episodes, and unstable interpersonal relationships. Their need to be taken care of conflicts with their inability to trust authority figures, whom they manipulate and continually provoke or test. Feelings of guilt and the associated need for punishment and expiation are obvious.)

But, in your case you have included churches and any support groups that feels sorry for your fat ass. It has been said you learn what you live with. I guess you mother has taught you well. I also think you have the “By Proxy” part. Since I know you are using K, to get that all needed attention that you constantly craving of yours. Just in case you don’t know what it is here you go “Munchausen syndrome by proxy is a bizarre variant in which usually a child is used as a surrogate patient. The parent falsifies history and may injure the child with drugs or add blood or bacterial contaminants to urine specimens to simulate disease. The parent seeks medical care for the child and always appears to be deeply concerned and protective. The child is often seriously ill, requires frequent hospitalization, and may die

Well I just hope you don’t have the second one,

I will close for now

James.

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letter that Chrissy wrote to her dad and Step mother

Tuesday, March 22, 2005

Dad & C Dated 10/27/98

Hello! Just a short note to say we are fine. Just great.

I'm divorced & our name changes are going through. K will have the "ch" spelling now.

In response to the letter, I realize your stress. Nothing more!

Please Don't read anything into that. I know your drive non-stop & C worried over her kids.

I pray you all are okay.

WE are moving. I'll send you an address soon. Please mail letter to my grandparents. You may also want Christmas mailed there.

Gotta go!@ News is short! Want to see you all again.

P.s. Thanks again for the good time.

Love

Christine
&
K

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Edna "the Mother" writes

Monday, March 14, 2005

Liz 6.3.96

I 'm writing in referance to the letters James has written Christine concerning K.

It is ok that James come for a visit June 16th- father day, this is the say for his regular visit anyway. I see no reason that jams can not come for his visit as lonad James remains a gentlemen. it is understandable that he would want to see this beautiful baby. i'm asking that James let us know via mail if he intednds to cancel. WE do have a life.

At this time K. needs no clothes. K health is good. He an extremely happy baby and enjoys church, bible stories and gospel music. he loves barney on tv.

Christine can no longer be reach at the street address but the P.O. Box only

Thanks you for passing this on to James.

Have a wonderful day

Edna...

Now this woman if you can call her that, Has taught her daugher how to lie and use the system for her own personal gain.. I know that this lady isn't the brightest light bulb in the pack.. example they were invovle in accident, christine took a out court settle , mommy went to court and lost...

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Letter dated 1.22.96

Now my ex-wife claims that she always contacted me about our Son K. While the letters that I have proven diffent. She always wrote my mother, never me, but when we go to court she claim she has written me.. Oh what a Lie..

Liz,

Please send me a proper address. XXXX conifer court doesn't sound right. Usually trailers have lot #'s or box #'s.

Note: this was written on tored piece of paper

and other letter was enclosed with it..

Monday 1/22/96

Liz,
I'm writing to to let you know that K is doing well. I also was told the visit went well adn that James was in good behavior.

I truly appreciate your phone message telling me so.

A few of the toy's given to K were out of his age group, so i have place them in safe keeping until he is at least 1 yr old. He like the rolling balls

Please Call me Friday before 3 pm to let me know about Sunday the 28th visit.

Thank you
Chrissy...

One would have to wonder why she could write to me and let me know about my son. No she has to drag others into our problems. She has to make it seen that she is a victim. She need constant attention. I swear this girl isn't right in the head. I truly beleive that she isn't the sharpest tool in the tool shed.. the lights are on, but no one is at home.

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July 2, 2001
Buck Branch Circle
Wilson, NC 27893


Christine E. Smith
c/o Mr. & Mrs. C. Hatfield
2413 Cross St.
Chesapeake, VA 23323

Dear Chrissy,

It has been some time since I have written to you to request some basic information about my son. That is what this letter is for I would like to a total update on his health and how he is doing overall. I would all so like to request if you would be so kind by send a current picture of him.

As you may be aware I didn’t go up for court, however I did send them some paperwork, and requested that they use the Uniform interstate family support act. I have given them the address of the local Child support office here in Wilson. I hope to be hearing from them soon.

Well I will keep this letter short and simple.


K’ father





James Smith


For your record I’m sending the exact some files that I sent the court in Chesapeake.
Also I’m sending a self-address stamped envelope so you can reply to my request with out it costing you anything.

Copy of this letter is on file

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letter to chrissy dated mar 26, 03

Sunday, March 13, 2005

Kelly Windsor
2413 Cross St.
Chesapeake, VA 23323

Dear Ms Windsor,

Once again I find myself writing to you and asking the same very question that I have asked in the past. I don’t why you find it so hard to write and to share information concerning our son K. I can only say that I’m sure that your mother has something to do with it. So I will ask once again the very same question that I have asked in the past about Kristopher.

I would like a full update of his heatlh, and he progress in school. I would like a current photography of him as well. I know that you think that I’m asking to much, but what I’m asking for is simple and to the point.

In time I hope that we will be able to put are past differences behind us and focus on our son and he needs.




Sincerely,

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Letter to Aunt Bev....

April 3, 2003

Beverly Hatfield
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Chesapeake, VA 23323

Dear Ms B. Hatfield,

I always thought that you wasn’t the brightest light bulb in the pack. You know just as well who Kelly Windsor is. It’s your own childish niece Chrissy. I know that she may be still living there, and/or that she visit very often.

Since she wants to play hide and seek with me and the law that is ok.

I would ask that you pass this along to her and her mother. Since she didn’t show up for court on the 21st of March in Chesapeake. That Judge Olds has issued two warrants for Chrissy arrest. So no matter where she runs or with whom she won’t be able to run for ever. I f I should find out that any member of your family is helping her I will make sure charges for issue against who ever is. This mean Your brother and his wife, your sister Janet, or your sister Shelby and your self.




Sincerely,

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reply letter to Edna

May 17, 2002



Re: Your unsolicited letter Dated May 5, 02

Here is a typed copy of your letter with my comments in italic text.
James,
I am tired of your using my P.O.Box for your nasty letters. I have opened then and & turned then over to Christine’s Attorney, George Talbot. I suggest you write Mr. Talbot should you have anything else to say.

If this is yours box then why is Chrissy using it to write to others people and so on? If you are claiming she has retain Mr. Talbot for her personal lawyer in all of her legal matter, then thanks I know where to sent the NC contempt charges to.

Christine and K have not lived in the this area for a while now. She does return for court And Family at times. K doesn’t attend school or have a doctor here. He is a healthy happy boy enjoying his extended family. It is none of your business where she lives or with whom.

Who are you kidding; I know that she can’t live with your so-called caring support, and Christian understanding and your teaching how to use the legal system by lying. I know that Chrissy still lives in the area. Simply cause the umbilical cord hasn’t been cut between you and Chrissy yet. Wherever you are she is there, where ever she is you are there. Like your trip to Conn, and Penn. “Get a life” nice little quote, however I have one that doesn’t involve you. About your past, sorry to inform you that everyone has one, you are no different. I sure your past is full with lies and deceptions. Whom she lives with is my business since he will be in contact with my son, Believe once I find who he is, I will do a complete background check on him. I just might fill him in on all those letters and stuff.


You have made it clear in your letters that you have contact with r and C. As to getting pictures of K, prompted for visition & underdog attacks from them my past (or what they assume is truth). Also attacks against my daughter. You sure are desperate for information when you deal with drunks like R and C. All of you are verbal and emotional abusers! It’s as plain as the nose on your face’s that if any of you were happy campers, you would have no time to attack others. Get a life! Grow up and Stop the blame game. It’s old hat.

Thank you for confirming that Chrissy and you are in receipt of my letters that I have written, this will help in the contempt charges that I plan on bring against Chrissy in NC. I believe your can also be label a verbal and emotional abuser as well. At least I can see my face. Attacking others is what you and your family is about. Yes it does run in your family, Shelby attack her ex in the same matter that Chrissy is doing to me now. I guess one could say that Shelby is teaching her as well. Just like I know that she found some poor unfortunate sole to trick into marring her. I guess you will be teaching this lesson to K too.

Since you like the term “responsible adult”, how about you being one and pay up the $ plus interest you owe in back child support. Judge Olds gave you time to redeem yourself on the April 9 court day. You were given until May 9 to $ 800.00(as a start) to attorney George Talbot or face going to jail on May 14th. Are you willing to take that risk? Don’t take my word for it, check with court.

The child support matter is none of your business, unless Chrissy have left it up to you to raise K for her so she can party around and return to her olds ways like she was doing in IL with the boys. Jail, been there done that, thanks to Chrissy and your lies. Remember, if you can access those file in your pea brain.

You have proven to be a big bully, thinking you can push people around to get what you want. Want to take someone to court? I’ll be glad to meet you there to confirm your threats and harassment in front of Judge Olds.

No that is your motto, not mine, and by the way how is asking about my son pushing Chrissy or yourself around. Since I have filed to have visitation reorder when that court date comes up please drag your self if you can into court on that day and please bring those nasty, harassing letters with, since I will have my copies to.

I will continue as well as my family to stand by Christine 110% in all you put here thru, letting her know how much we love her.

What family you may have left, which I guess most of them are the same way you are. I have been told it’s run in your family. I see that Chrissy and you are wearing the same size now.

Dare you accuse anyone of not letting go of the past? When you wallow in deep self-pity instead of moving on in life. You’re extremely transparent.

Please Chrissy and you live in the past everyday. I have a life a great one, one with love and true understanding, which I never had in that belief life with your mental challenge child of yours. I have never lie about my self, I knew from an early age what I was. There are still a few closets in your family. Since Chrissy still thinks she can get that money for my father’ estate, which by the way she never will. Even if something was to happen to my mother, Chrissy still won’t be able to get any part of the that money.

By the way, as you’ve requested K will learn what you’re all about, when he’s older.

I didn’t request you to tell he anything, but I know you will, just like I know I will be apart of his life. It’s a shame that you will do the same to K that you have done to Joey, you do remember who I’m talking about, don’t you. You made it so impossible for George to have a relationship with his only son. By the way what has happen to your husband, I’ve heard you ran him off, oops Chrissy did by lying as usual to get what she wants for you.

I believe I’ve made my position clear.

Yes you have. You will still lie for Chrissy.

Whatever you may tell K about I know that I will be able to counter those lies with the truth, which you know nothing about. The more you push the more I plan to rock your family tree to see what will fall out of it. I still remember later about the things and family members that Chrissy has told me. It would be a shame for a few of those members to learn certain things about them.

On the bright side I didn’t need any one to force D to be with me, unlike you did.





This is a copy, since I sent one to your P.O.Box which is now closed..

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to ex wife

Saturday, March 12, 2005

Dear Kelly Windsor (aka Christine Smith):

Subject: Son's Health

I find myself lost for words; however I would like to request an update of our son’s health and education. If you would, I would like to know if there is anything that he may need (cloths, shoes whatever). I just don’t know why you can’t let me know these things.

Also, are there any new medical bills for"K" so I can pay my part? Keep in mind I will only pay to the doctor of medical office. Not to you. I know I was order to pay only 39% of these bills, but I will pay 50% since "K" Is my son too. It only fair as well. However if you don’t forward these bills to me I can’t pay them, so let get with the program…

A timely respond is requested.. I have enclosed a return envelope that has a stamp on it for you, that way I won’t cost you a thing. I know how hard it is to find a 37 cent stamp in Suffolk.

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Letter to Edna

Monday, March 07, 2005

November 16, 2002

Edna Goolsby,

Well I sure this letter will be return to me, but that is ok. Since you feel it is necessary to lie for your daughter I thought you should know that what I will or have done.

Early this month I have filed for a termination of child support since Chrissy had vanished with my son. I can only guess that she had found some poor soul with a lot of money and very desperate for some type of company that he doesn’t care that Chrissy is still attach to you. I'm sure once that Chrissy finds out, that I have filed for termination of support. She will reappear as fast as she disappeared for nowhere at all.

By the way I sorry for your lost, on the recently death of your mother. I guess this was God’s way to remove her so she wouldn’t have to tell lies for Chrissy and you. I see that you have been able to get your father to lie for you two. You are putting your father in a position where he should be at all.

As for Mr. Talbot if I should happen to find out that he helped Chrissy do anything that is illegal I will file charges against him with the Virginia Bar Association.

As for me contacting Chrissy Dad and Stepmother that is my right. You can’t sit in your little world and dictate the action of others, except for Chrissy’ actions. It seems that you have only one person to dictate to now. I have heard what might have happen between Chrissy, your ex and yourself. I can only guess why you would allow that to happen. However R n C aren’t the only family members that I have contacted in your family.

No matter what you think or may do you can’t change what is and what will be. No matter how you may attack me personally in time the lies that Chrissy and you may tell my son about me, at least I will be able to counteract those lies what the truth.

While we are on the subject of old hat, why is it that you must constantly bring the matter of child support up, in the letter you written to others and me? I guess this is the only way you can get those that knows that you are a liar to feel sorry for Chrissy and yourself. To get attention to make other see that only Chrissy and you care for K. I guess money is the only thing Chrissy and you care about. Doing the right thing like letting K be a child, or to let K know who is father is just too much for a women like you two. Taking about wallowing in deep pity, oops that right that is where you live 24/7/365.

No matter what you think I do have the right to know where my son is and who he is taking care of him. If Chrissy should happen to get remarried and if I should happen to find out who he is I will and believe I will do a full background check on him. I will in turn share with him everything that I know about Chrissy, you and your family. How it’s your family way or the highway. Like the old saying what goes what goes around comes around. One day I will have my day in the sun and my truths will counteract your lies that you have told my son any everyone else about me.

It funny, as I look at what Chrissy is doing to me now, I see amazing comparison with what you do to R and Chrissy some twenty years ago. I guess it is true that children learn what they live with. In your case Chrissy learned to lie and use other for her own person gain. I guess one could say that you taught Chrissy how to abuse the legal system to her advance.

Your time using the court will soon be at an end, for the court will see finally the liars that you are. I guess that is why you haven’t been coming to court with Chrissy any more. I see S is her new teacher, then why not S was doing the same to her ex. I guess she thought that he wouldn’t chase her from state to state, but he did, didn’t he. I remember those drives that you took with her every other weekend she had to drive half way so her kids could see their father. How you two complain about it, by saying it was unfair for him to force her to it. And why he should just leave her be and let them get on with their lives. The only ones in your family that haven't done this yet are your brother and you old maid sister B. You have done this to R, your sister J has done it to her first husband, and S has done it to her first husband. Damn talking about keeping things in the family, it’s like monkey see, monkey do with you folks. What one does the other must do to match or beat it.

Yes you are right that was hitting just below the belt wasn’t it. I guess I too can learn and have learned sometimes for the likes of you two. On one hand I must thank Chrissy and yourself for helping to control my anger. By doing that, I have been able to express my thoughts more clearly and more effectively.

Reasonable parent, yes it is my job to supply support for my son, its Chrissy job to provide a stable home for K. She hasn’t done that, has she? Always moving from address to address, place to place, how is this providing a stable place for him to grow. I sure you will say that its my fault since I have fail to provide support. Then why did she close the support case with DSS, I tell you why? She didn’t want anyone to know why she is and how she is always moving.

Well I will close for now, I sure that if you do decide to read this letter, you will write back.

Sincerely


James Smith

By the way be say hi to Kelly Marie Windsor aka Christine E. Smith

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Letter Date April 30.02

April 30, 2002
Christine E. Collins Smith
Post Office
Chesapeake, VA 23323

Dear Christine E. Collins Smith,

Subject: Our Son xxxxxxx

I have repetitively written and asked how our son is doing. Yet, you have failed to reply to my very simple request. It is time for you to put your petty feelings you have against me aside and act in the best interest of our son.

xxxxxxx has the right to know who his father is. One way or another he will know me.
In the letters that you have written me in 1997, you claimed that it was in his best interest. Well, it is now for you to act in the best interest of your child.

As I look back over my family’s past and your family’s past I’m shocked to see this pattern forming. Your mother has been married four times, now you have been married twice, just two to go. You’ve starting this strange type of relationship between xxxxxxx and myself that is almost like your father and yours relationship. I hope for xxxxxxx sake this is not what you are doing. Simply because I won’t give up on my son, I will be a part of his life. I will try to have a very civil relationship with my son. I have tried to have a civil relationship with you, however since you don’t want me to know anything about my son life, I have sought out others means. Legal means that is, I have filed to reorder visitation, to be inform of xxxxxx Health, and to have access to his medical and schools records.

I hope that we can peacefully come to an agreement, which is in the best interest for xxxxx. I hope we can do this before court. If all is possible this hearing won’t be in front of Judge Olds.
Once again could you please act like an adult and let the father of your child know how his son is doing. Also could you possible send a current photo?
Respectfully,

cc: File

P.S. I have enclosed a self-address stamped envelope for you to use. So it won’t cost you a thing, just a piece of paper, and a few moments of your time.

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april18.02

April 18, 2002


Christine Elaine Collins
P.O.Box xxxx
Chesapeake, VA 23323

Dear Chrissy,

Once again I’m writing to see how our son xxxxxx is doing. I would like a full up to date account of his health and well-being. I also want to know how he is doing in school, and how he coming along with his speech lessons.

I have enclosed a self-stamped envelope for you to return the request information to me, so there is no expense for you pay.

I would like to say that its time that we put the past behind us. To keep in mind that xxxxxx need both a mother and a father. I can’t go on letting our personal problem to affect our son. In public it is best for him to see that his parents can get along.

Sincerely,

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