November 16, 2002


Edna Goolsby,

Well I sure this letter will be return to me, but that is ok. Since you feel it is necessary to lie for your daughter I thought you should know that what I will or have done.

Early this month I have filed for a termination of child support since Chrissy had vanished with my son. I can only guess that she had found some poor soul with a lot of money and very desperate for some type of company that he doesn’t care that Chrissy is still attach to you. I'm sure once that Chrissy finds out, that I have filed for termination of support. She will reappear as fast as she disappeared for nowhere at all.

By the way I sorry for your lost, on the recently death of your mother. I guess this was God’s way to remove her so she wouldn’t have to tell lies for Chrissy and you. I see that you have been able to get your father to lay for you two. You are putting your father in a position where he shouldn’t be at all.

As for Mr. T if I should happen to find out that he helped Chrissy do anything that is illegal I will file charges against him with the Virginia Bar Association.

As for me contacting R and C that is my right. You can’t sit in your little world and dictate the action of others, except for Chrissy’ actions. It seems that you have only one person to dictate to now. I have heard what might have happen between Chrissy, George and yourself. I can only guess why you would allow that to happen. However R and C aren’t the only family members that I have contacted in your family.

No matter what you think or may do you can’t change what is and what will be. No matter how you may attack me personally in time the lies that Chrissy and you may tell my son about me, at least I will be able to counteract those lies what the truth.

While we are on the subject of old hat, why is it that you must constantly bring the matter of child support up, in the letter you written to others and me? I guess this is the only way you can get those that knows that you are a liar to feel sorry for Chrissy and yourself. To get attention to make other see that only Chrissy and you care for K. I guess money is the only thing Chrissy and you care about. Doing the right thing like letting K be a child, or to let K know who is father is just too much for a women like you two. Taking about wallowing in deep pity, oops that right that is where you live 24/7/365.

No matter what you think I do have the right to know where my son is and who he is taking care of him. If Chrissy should happen to get remarried and if I should happen to find out who he is I will and believe I will do a full background check on him. I will in turn share with him everything that I know about Chrissy, you and your family. How it’s your family way or the highway. Like the old saying what goes what goes around comes around. One day I will have my day in the sun and my truths will counteract your lies that you have told my son and everyone else about me.

It funny, as I look at what Chrissy is doing to me now, I see amazing comparison with what you did to R and Chrissy some twenty years ago. I guess it is true that children learn what they live with. In your case Chrissy learned to lie and use others for her own person gain. I guess one could say that you taught Chrissy how to abuse the legal system to her advance.

Your time using the court will soon be at an end, for the court will see finally the liars that you are. I guess that is why you haven’t been coming to court with Chrissy any more. I see S is her new teacher, then why not S was doing the same to her ex. I guess she thought that he wouldn’t chase her from state to state, but he did, didn’t he. I remember those drives that you took with her every other weekend she had to drive half way so her kids could see their father. How you two complain about it, by saying it was unfair for him to force her to it. And why he should just leave her be and let them get on with their lives. The only ones in your family that haven't done this yet are your brother and you old maid sister Beverly. You have done this to R, your sister J has done it to her first husband, and S has done it to her first husband. Damn talking about keeping things in the family, it’s like monkey see, monkey do with you folks. What one does the other must do to match or beat it.

Yes you are right that was hitting just below the belt wasn’t it. I guess I too can learn and have learned sometimes for the likes of you two. On one hand I must thank Chrissy and yourself for helping to control my anger. By doing that, I have been able to express my thoughts more clearly and more effectively.

Reasonable parent, yes it is my job to supply support for my son, its Chrissy job to provide a stable home for K. She hasn’t done that, has she? Always moving from address to address, place to place, how is this providing a stable place for him to grow. I’m sure you will say that its my fault since I have fail to provide support. Then why did she close the support case with DSS, I tell you why? She didn’t want anyone to know where she is and how she is always moving.

Well I will close for now, I sure that if you do decide to read this letter, you will write back.

Sincerely


James
By the way be say hi to Kelly Marie Windsor aka Christine E. Smith